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| Going from attraction to rapport Posted: 08 Feb 2015 04:25 PM PST Ever wondered how to properly attract a women? How about what to do past the attraction phase? The attraction and rapport phase are two very important phases you got to go through in order to attract and seduce hot women. Now, remember the last time you talked to a girl you were attracted to and did not know whether she was thinking either, “Why can’t this guy just leave me alone” or “I want you, just take me home right now”? Learn how to know for sure that she is interested. The Details: Attraction: When you approach a girl, does she smile at you? If she does, turn your head and chest toward her but don’t lean in. If she doesn’t smile, no big deal, just chat with her while only your head is facing her and don’t face her with your body. Now if she is facing you with her body this is great. If she is not, turn your head away from her for a second then turn back to her again. Tease her next. Tell her that she looks like trouble, accuse her that she went over to you to just flirt (even if you approached her), that you guys would never get along because you guys would fight like cats and dogs all time and that you would always win. Try to come up with something on the spot but if nothing comes to your mind, just have something memorized to tell her. If she has not smiled at this point, you can assume that she is testing you and hold your ground and tease her again a couple times. (If she is still not smiling or laughing, accuse her of being boring and move on) If she is smiling or laughing use a “take away” to get her to chase you. So while she is laughing, turn your back to her. Look over your shoulder and smile at her to show her your interested in her, otherwise she will think your not interested and she will walk away. While your turned away, take a couple of slow steps away from her and count to four in your head before you turn back to her. Does she try to get your attention after you do this? If no, tease her again and go from their again. If she does, start qualifying her. Show her that she has earned your attraction. Ask what her three most positive dominant qualities are, ask her if she is smart, if she could spend her life doing just one thing, what would it be? Tell her that you like a women that can cook well and ask her what her best dish is if your looking for a girl that knows how to cook. Ask her if she has a certain quality that you look for in a girl. (Don’t ask her about physical traits) Once she qualifies herself to you, make sure you accept her for it. Rapport: At this point, all the joking around, teasing, playfulness, and negative body language stops. Deeper more emotional intelligence starts. Know that if you skip rapport, she will not return your calls, text or get sexual with you. Make sure that you are in a private place where you both can talk one on one. If your not in a situation like this, grab her by the hand and tell her to follow you and move to a more private location. Start out asking her an open ended question like what she did before she went to the place you met her. Really listen to her and let her talk. Whatever she tells you, try to relate it to something that happened to you when you were a kid. For example: if she tells you that she was riding her bike today, tell her, “awesome, I don’t know how it is for you but when I was a kid I used to be terrified trying to learn how to ride a bike without my training wheels. Until one day I had enough and summed up the courage to keep practicing until I finally did it successfully. What you want to do next is tie your story to the current moment. Example: You: “Now whenever I want to do something I’m really interested in, I go for it and don’t stop until I get the result I want”. Lastly, drop the topic and and start the same process with a new topic. Ask her another open ended question, relate whatever she says to something about your childhood and then tie your story back up to the current moment. Do this about 3 or four times before going into seduction. Button line: Going from attraction to rapport can be scary if you don’t know what your doing. Fortunately the above tips will help you massively if done correctly. Pay attention to her body language throughout the interaction. Her body language will let you know how interested or not interested she is into you and what you should do because of that. Make sure to tease her before you do a “take away” and enter the qualification step. After the attraction phase is over, remember that the joking, teasing, and playfulness has to stop. Lastly remember to make sure that you and the girl your interested in are in a one on one situation before you start rapport.
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