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Building Deep Rapport

Posted: 09 Feb 2015 04:24 PM PST

There are usually three types of rapport topics. As you might think, many guys try to start rapport by finding commonalities with a girl. This is a deadly approach. It's a poor man’s rapport topic and women know right away that you just want to get in their pants by starting deep rapport out this way. In fact trying to build rapport with women using commonalities only works on women that have a low self-esteem. Girls that don’t ever talk to guys. Know that hot women will instantly be turned off using this method. So how should you be building deep rapport with hot women?

The Details:

The three most common deep rapport topics according to dating expert Josh Pellicer are unexpected rapport topics, eager rapport topics and negative rapport topics. When you're starting to build light rapport with a girl and you ask her a light rapport question like what she did today, her topics will either fall into either the unexpected rapport topic, eager rapport topic or in the negative rapport topic category. 

Example:

Guy: Hey Laura, what did you do today?

Laura: Well, I fed my cat this morning (unexpected rapport topic), I somehow lost my twenty dollar bill on the way to work today (negative rapport topic), and I tagged along with some cow-workers to go eat at the most amazing sushi place. (eager rapport topic)

A lot of guys instantly try to build rapport with the most positive topic they get from a girl. I mean whenever she gives you an eager rapport topic she naturally wants you to talk about it but she has a really good idea of what your going to say about the positive topic. Keep in mind that the really attractive girls will not be turned on by this approach. Now, some guys will go for the negative rapport topic because they feel that it would be a good idea to share how bad the experience was. Again, bad idea. 

So that leaves us building rapport with the unexpected rapport topic which is Laura feeding her cat. She did not put any positive or negative emotions when she mentioned this topic. This is the last thing an attractive women would expect you to build rapport on. Whatever she tells you, seek on building deep rapport on the topics she least expects you to talk about. From their, build rapport with the girl like it was mentioned in the last article “Going from attraction to rapport”. So relate the topic with something from your childhood and tie that experience with present moment. According to dating expert Josh Pellicer, this is one of the best ways on how to build deep rapport with hot women.

Going for the unexpected rapport topic is powerful. If she sees you attempting hard into finding a common ground based on either the positive or negative rapport topics, she will know that you will go for anything she says. She will feel that you are trying to build a connection with her badly because you don’t often build connections with women and so you may be an unattractive guy. 

Bottom Line:

Building deep rapport with the unexpected topic first will really get her attention. After building rapport on this type of topic, it's OK to build rapport on the other two types of rapport topics. It’s easy for guys to go straight into the positive or negative rapport topics because women usually push to talk about either of those two topics. The problem with that is that it’s super predictable and girls are so used to getting feedback based on either the positive or negative rapport topic but rarely on the unexpected topic. It’s called unexpected rapport topic for a reason and when you build deep rapport with the unexpected topic, you easily stand out and conversation becomes unexpectedly interesting.

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