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Posted: 11 Feb 2015 03:14 PM PST

Some guys want to learn about dating/pick up to hide the person that they really are. Then their are other guys that want to learn about dating/pick up to build upon the person they are already and to be the best they can be. I’m a big fan about learning about dating/pick up to build upon a person and to help a guy be the best they can be. I’m also a big fan in attracting women in ways that are done more naturally. Without really thinking about what to do. Below you will learn how you can be good at demonstrating value, being the best man you can be. Without coming across as someone your not.

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Have you ever wanted to approach a hot looking girl? What happen to you as soon as the thought of approaching her went into your mind? I’m assuming you had a weird feeling in your chest and stomach and maybe your hands started to sweat. Not only that but you instantly came up with many excuses of why you shouldn’t approach her. I’m assuming that you already know that this is what many people call approach anxiety.

The reason why this happens to guys is because they are not used to approaching people or approaching people the right way. The solution is simple. Become a guy that approaches people all the time. Get in the habit of talking to people that your interested in and at times people that your not that interested in. Both men and women. Old people to young kids. This is the key to destroying approach anxiety. It does not matter whether your an introvert or the opposite

This means not making a big deal out of starting small talk with random people you cross paths with on a daily basis. Doing as something as simple as seeing a person with a cool shirt or shoes and letting him or her know that you like it and moving on with your day is good.

If you want to live a life where your always demonstrating value, your gonna want to get into the habit of talking to both men and women that catch your interest in some way while your out and about. The second way on demonstrating value everywhere you go is by teasing and being playful with everyone that you can. As a matter of fact, being in a playful/banter state of mind should always be your default state of being according to dating expert Joshua Pellicer.

Their are plenty of guys that don’t like being in this state and prefer much better to go right into connecting with people right away. Some people think that being in the banter/playful state of mind is garbage or a wast of time and that they should skip it entirely. A lot of these guys say it because they themselves are not good at bantering and being playful. As long as your normal state of mind is being playful and being the guy who teases and your not the guy that gets into rapport first, your on the road to building friendships and relationships in a successful way.

Your gonna want to jump into rapport only when someone first starts trying to get into rapport with you. Your going to know that people want to get into rapport with you when they are asking you for your name, where your from, how old you are or any other personal question. If someone you just met is not trying to build rapport with you, your gonna have to remain being the guy who banters, who is playful, and the guy who uses negative body language properly.

Think about how you met your close friends. You probably met your friends by first teasing each other and being playful. After being playful and light-hearted with them, you naturally went into rapport after that. It’s the same process when meeting and attracting women.

By doing the above two tips (talking to everyone your curious about and making being playful as a default state of mind) you will be always making friends and always attracting women. The more friends you make, the higher status you become and the easier it is in getting hot girls. As you may already know, the more social status you have, the more attractive you are to hot girls and girls in general.

Bottom line:

Become good at naturally demonstrating value by talking to everyone that your interested in and by always having a playful/bantering default state of mind. Create a lifestyle that allows you to make this work. Only be that fun guy until someone wants you to go deeper by trying to create rapport with you.

Just like when you meet a new person, you don’t know if that person is trust worthy.That same person is at least subconsciously thinking the same thing about you. By being the fun guy at the beginning with people, you will allow people to see that your not clingy and that you don’t need to go into rapport super quick which is unattractive to people, especially very attractive women.

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