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Posted: 04 Feb 2015 05:09 PM PST

What is a good way on how to talk to girls and keep a conversation going? Guys who are not very skilled with women tend to ask question after question to keep a conversation going as if they were in a job interview. It’s either that or the guy sticks to one topic until he and the girl have nothing else to talk about that one specific topic. A third mistake is that the guy relies on the girl to keep the conversation going. Below are some tips that will help you avoid the above mistakes and help you get the girl .

The details:

When talking to girls, it’s a good idea to make observations, statements or funny guesses/assumptions about her or the environment your in. Look at what she is wearing. Let her know that you find it nice that her shoes match her belt and maybe her ear rings. Tell her that she looks artistic, adventurous, independent, out going, or that she seems like an intellect. Tell her that she seems from a certain ethic group or that she seems like shes from a certain country or state because of her accent or cause of her way of dressing. Accuse her that she seems like trouble, that she is the one hitting on you and needs to stop or that she needs to stop looking at you like a fat kid looks at a doughnut.

Get in the moment and really absorb the situation your in as well as the girl your talking to. Find ways to make observations, statements and funny guesses based on the environment that your in, what she is wearing, how she wears something, how she carries herself, her way of talking or certain expressions she makes repeatedly.

Links, conversational threads and open loops: These are great ways on keeping conversations going.

A link is a verb in the conversation, (person, place or thing). A thread is conversational topic. An open loop is when you start a conversation but do not finish it and end up keeping the listener wondering how something ended.

Here is an example: Girl: I went shopping with an old friend from college the other day, we had so much fun and you also won’t believe who we saw?

Link(s)- Shopping, old friend, college, fun

The thread- The conversation topic is about shopping.

Open loop- We don’t know who the girl and her friend saw while they were shopping so it keeps us wondering who it could be.

To keep conversations interesting and going your going to want to pay attention to the links that she gives you and talk about some of the one’s that catch your attention. As far as threads go, you want to smoothly change the topic to something else throughout the conversation. With an open loop, you can either create one yourself or make an assumption if you are given one.

Have fun with this! Practice identifying her links and create conversations with any link you want. Try to find out the who,what,when,where and why for some of the links that she gives you. Change threads often at the beginning. Ideally you want to have multiple conversational threads so you don’t easily run out of things to say. Create open loops yourself (good way to make her chase you if done correctly) Avoid talking about one link for too long as well as sticking to one conversational thread for a long time.

A great way to practice talking about almost any link is to practice word associating with yourself. It’s better if it’s with a friend though. What you do is think about any one topic and take turns talking about it for 2 full minutes. Say anything about it. Avoid judging yourself or thinking that your saying something stupid. Do this for five to ten minutes a day and in 30 days you will notice that your conversations will dramatically improve when talking to women and people in general really.

Bottom line:

We all go thorough our life filtering out what to say. When we’re at work, we filter out certain behavior and certain words. When we are with our friends we may want to put our funny filter on and say things that are mostly funny. When we are wondering how to talk to girls, guys often put on many filters on and end up with very little to nothing to say. Our filters are important but we need to loosen up around women and practice the above tips to have more enjoyable and interesting conversations.

As always, practice, practice, practice!

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