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Saturday, February 28, 2015
Friday, February 27, 2015
Dating Sites Reviews
Dating Sites Reviews |
| Coffee Meets Bagel Secures $7.8 Million in Funding Posted: 27 Feb 2015 03:29 AM PST Coffee Meets Bagel has been overshadowed by its more aggressive competitors (like Tinder), but lately has emerged as a serious, lasting contender in the dating app space. The company is showing its app has real growth potential by securing $7.8 million in a Series A financing round led by existing investor DCM Ventures. Quest Ventures and Azure Capital also participated in the round. This round of financing is followed by the steadily growing success of an app whose founders lik ... |
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Thursday, February 26, 2015
Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.
Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists. |
| Recovering from somebody doing a U-turn on their feelings or proclaimed intentions Posted: 26 Feb 2015 03:58 PM PST When we’re confronted with the realisation that our partner has done a U-turn on previously expressed feelings and plans, it’s understandable to feel horribly confused, disappointed, and more than a tad wounded. We may decide that it’s our fault and that something about us is unpalatable and rejectionable. We often jump to the conclusion that people don’t talk about their feelings or make plans with you unless they mean it, and then convince ourselves that we’ve provoked their current attitude and behaviour.
If we don’t get conscious, aware, and present, and discern what’s going on, we make dodgy decisions and adjust our thinking and behaviour to accommodate the self-judgement. We try to influence and control their feelings and behaviour with people pleasing so that we get a rejection retraction and the preferred ending. We are not going to solve a damn thing by taking ownership of their feelings and behaviour. It will muddy the waters even further – we won't know where we end and they begin. It also sets a precedence that’s difficult to recover from if it’s not nipped in the bud. How is a remotely healthy relationship going to blossom, if each time we encounter problems and disappointment, we disappear into the past and lose ourselves? They also don't end up having to account for the fact that they haven't come up with the actions to go with the words; they’re sheltered from reality.
A relationship that's going to go somewhere requires vulnerability and that at times means owning up when we're scared and owning up when we've erred. Once we decide to get into a relationship even when we know that we have certain things that we need to address, we must double our efforts to deal with that stuff rather than hoping that the other party will take it away or even anesthetise it. If they've done a U-turn and it's not because they're 10.8 on the Future Faker Richter scale with a penchant for pressing the reset button and instead, they've gotten carried away (possibly by their own hopes, lust or libido) and spoken/acted first then thought later and backtracked, that's something they need to face up to and address, especially if they're hoping to continue a relationship with us. We potentially have something to work with if they haven't made themselves out to be something they're not (or reality is better) and they're also not blaming their jitters and overestimating on us. If they lack the self-awareness, they may end up dumping stuff on us in an effort to avoid feelings and thoughts, and that's not fair. A person who can own up and make a concerted effort to address the issue makes for a better relationship co-pilot than somebody who is expecting us to, for example – make up for the fact that they had issues in a relationship with someone else. We also need to acknowledge where we may have denied, rationalised and minimised any concerns, and if we’ve been swept up in being fast forwarded, we need to acknowledge our part in it because then, if we’re going to work at things, rather than going along with their speed to keep the peace despite concerns, we take ownership of how we want to feel and think about the well-being of the relationship and the team spirit of that, rather than being a passenger who doesn’t want to upset the driver. We then know that we have to go slower and become more mindful and be assertive in the relationship, and this way we know that we can trust ourselves and also get a sense of whether we can trust them. We mustn't hide away from the issue (or pretend the U-turn isn't a U-turn) because we need to know where we stand. If [their behaviour] is about fear, or miscommunication stemming from not knowing how to handle conflict or criticism, or it’s about the past, we can’t know whether there's something to work with if we jump to conclusions and make it all about some ongoing narrative where we paint ourselves as an unworthy eff-up who always gets found out. They need to communicate.
We might be scared. We possibly have our own conflict, criticism, or whatever issues but it doesn't mean that we're excused from being conscientious or from having to show up in our relationships. We can be empathetic but we also need to know our line. We matter too. If they’re not cut out for anything beyond the beginning or for coming up with the deeds to match the talk, it’s better that we know sooner rather than later. Disappointment is there, not to highlight something about our worth but to let us know where we need to adjust our expectations and come into reality. It lets us know what is and isn’t possible in that specific instance or in that type of situation. Of course it hurts but it also gives us a place to work from, something that denial and other forms of BS-ng ourselves don't. So, where do you go from a U-turn?Make your concerns known. Yes it's emotional in the sense that you're both clearly feeling certain things and these are manifesting themselves in thoughts and actions but, it's better to say, "I've noticed __________ and _____________ and that's confusing to me because you said ______________" than, "You said that you were going to ____________ and you haven't. Is it because I'm not good enough?" Step up for you. The thing that we often find difficult to deal with is not about having tried or spoken up, but about having remained silent or inactive despite knowing at the time that there were niggling or even glaring concerns. Don't just focus on what they need to do and trying to get them to change or adapt in order to make you feel better because you will end up being passive. Know your line, make sure that you have other things going on in your life and that you haven't sacked off all of your friends, family or interests in order to get into this involvement or to focus on saving it. Whatever it is that you're expecting from them is also what you need to expect from you. If you want them to be vulnerable or to communicate, you do too. Often in these situations, because one person starts acting funny, the other person does it too and of course that just makes an already tricky situation much trickier. Know your line. Be authentic. Don't play games. It's better to let go of the relationship than let go of you. Let go of the picture you and they have painted in your mind and come into reality. These situations put one or both of you on a pedestal and it's hard to keep up with a fast forwarding pace. Take the U-turn as a warning to spend a bit more time getting to know each other and/or that you each need to learn the language of your relationship, so understanding each other's position and how you each relate in certain situations, not so that you can pander to each other but so that learn how to work as a team and get the best out of each other. Know when to fold. If it's very early on in the proceedings, painful as it may be to acknowledge, they may have expressed certain sentiments and plans without the sincerity and reality to back it up. If this is a back and forth that's been going on for some time, end the cycle before you throw up your life from too much riding of the rollercoaster of U-turns. Don't let chasing return on investment blind you to a more pressing concern – that you're in something that's not working. Less big, more small. U-turns often result from trying to supersize relationship efforts with words. This creates unrealistic expectations and internal panic. They've over-egged it. How about they focus on the less showy stuff and being present as opposed to rushing along? Some of these 'big shows' are a means of avoiding being vulnerable with the emotional stuff and truly showing up. And let me repeat: Don't make it all about you. Stop blaming you and don't turn you into a performing seal trying to earn their devotion. You matter. Your thoughts? |
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| Posted: 25 Feb 2015 03:32 PM PST Have you ever wondered how to properly court a women? I want to show you a "map" that you can follow that will help you court women properly. There are three phases that you need to follow. These phases will help guide you and help you achieve your dating goals much faster. They are the attraction phase, comfort/rapport phase, and the seduction phase. This map will let you know where you are in courtship process and will let you know what steps you need to take to keep things moving forward. The Details: Attraction Phase: Have you ever tried connecting with a women and right away you found out that the women you were talking to was not really interested? Either she didn't invest in the interaction as much as you did or she just gave you very short responses each time you made an attempt to connect with her. Most of the time, the #1 reason why this happens is because a women was not attracted to a guy in the first place. This is why we always want to start with the attraction phase. The example above illustrated men who usually try to start the courtship in the comfort/rapport phase. This is an ineffective way to start a courtship. I mean, why would most people want to invest their time talking to a stranger that they weren’t first attracted to in some way. Attraction starts as soon as a women lays her eyes on you. So what is she looking for? This varies from women to women but the following is what most women would be evaluating you on. The image you represent, which include your fashion sense, your personal hygiene (shaving, showering, cleaning and trimming your nails, if you have good or bad teeth, does your breath smell good). Your body language is very important and will let a women know how confident you are with yourself as well as how confident you are in the situation your in. How socially intelligent you are. Do you know how to express your personality in a fun, dominant, high status way? Do you understand general social rules? You want to make sure that you are making the best out of these qualities. Make sure you have a fashion sense that is up to date. This includes from head to toe. Make sure you are taking care of your hygiene and that you are clean and fresh when going out to meet women. If you have bad teeth, fix them as soon as you can. Make sure you are displaying dominant body language everywhere you go. Women want an alpha man and not a beta man. Keep your social skills sharp and know how to express the best version of yourself. Comfort/Rapport Phase: You enter this phase after a women is already attracted to you. In fact, women should initiate this phase with you by FIRST making an attempt to connect with you. They will do it by asking you rapport/comfort questions. During the rapport/comfort phase, you want to make sure that the teasing, playfulness/bantering has stopped. This is the time to connect and really get to know a women at a deeper level. In general, you always want to make sure that you are in a 1 on 1 situation where the women will be very comfortable opening herself up to you. You don't want to build rapport with her in front of her friends, your friends or around many people in general. This should be in a private setting. Move her to a quite location within the SAME venue. Keep in mind that every courtship is based around the comfort/rapport phase and if she is not comfortable with you, she will not go into the seduction phase with you. Seduction Phase: Are you a victim of falling into the "friend zone" a lot? If you are, you're not alone. Most guys have been in this situation at some point in their lives and also became frustrated over this. The reason why women put guys in the "friend zone" or what I like to call the "no sex zone" is because women do not see those guys as sexual options. If you want to JUST be friends with women, following just the attraction phase and rapport phase is all you need to follow. However, if you want a women to see you as a romantic/sexual option, you want to show her that you are a sexual person. You do this SLOWLY. Women are not like men where they can get intimate within seconds. Women need to be warmed up. You warm them up from the BEGINNING (Attraction phase) and slowly continue in the rapport phase until you finally crank it up as you enter the seduction phase. You warm a woman up throughout the courtship with your TOUCH. Get her used to your touch throughout the whole courtship. Start off with socially acceptable ways of touching and slowly move towards more intimate ways of touching. During the early stages of seduction, you want to make sure that you are building sexual tension and that you fully release the tension in an appropriate location. An appropriate location would be in your bedroom, her bedroom or in a private location where sex is possible. It's your choice how you want to fully release the sexual tension. Do you want to release the tension through heavy make out, sex or by just killing the tension by not taking action. Decide on how you want to fully release it and make it happen.
Bottom Line: Now that you know how to properly court a women, you will be much less confused during the process and you will be able to achieve your intimate goals with women much faster. You have a beginning, middle and an end guide to follow. All you need to do now is understand each phase in more depth and practice going through each phase to better master you courtship skills. Remember, you always start at the attraction phase. You jump into the rapport phase after a women starts making an attempt to connect with you by asking you rapport questions. Last, you smoothly transfer from rapport phase to the seduction phase. You will smoothly make this transfer if you have gotten the women warmed all the way up to the seduction phase. You get her warmed up by getting her used to your touch during the attraction phase and rapport/comfort phase. Most women will not just jump into the seduction phase if they haven't been warmed up during those two phases that lead to the seduction phase.
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Dating Sites Reviews
Dating Sites Reviews |
| How Dating Apps Rate Among Users Posted: 26 Feb 2015 07:12 AM PST More than one in ten Americans have used a dating app or online dating service of some kind, according to a recent study from Pew Research. And dating apps are only increasing in popularity. But despite peoples' love of technology, online daters don't seem to be finding what they want, and are not so satisfied with the dating app experience. No matter how many new apps hit the market, it seems the inherent problems with online dating (lying, old photos, bad behavior) – are still ... |
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Wednesday, February 25, 2015
Dating Sites Reviews
Dating Sites Reviews |
| Study: How to Create the Perfect Online Dating Profile Posted: 25 Feb 2015 03:39 AM PST How do you create the perfect online dating profile? There's been a lot of advice and speculation over the years, but brace yourselves – there is now a study that shows you how to create the perfect online dating profile. That's right – it's science. Scientists from Barts, the London School of Medicine and The University of North Texas have discovered the secret to the perfect online dating profile. In an analysis of 86 psychology, sociology, computer, and behav ... |
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Tuesday, February 24, 2015
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| How to get the 8’s, 9’s and 10’s Posted: 23 Feb 2015 04:09 PM PST A lot of guys think that it’s almost impossible to date the most beautiful girls in the world. I’m talking about girls that get paid for their looks. Girls that you see in front covers of magazines, bartenders that you see at high end places, go-go dancers and strippers. Even if it’s just the kind of girl that is the most attractive out of a whole social group. Knowing how to attract the 8’s, 9’s and 10’s is much easier then you think. The Details: Their are many dating coaches out their that teach you how to get girls by approaching complete strangers. This is called cold approaching. Cold approaching has several benefits and they also come with their disadvantages. One of the biggest disadvantages is that it’s very challenging to consistently get the 9’s and 10′. The females that are at the very top of the chain. Cold approaching is a good way to better your social skills, improv skills, build your confidence, helps you get used to meeting new people effortlessly, you get feed back right away based on your social skills and other related benefits. You can still get several good quality girls by cold approaching. In fact, many dating coaches like Braddock from Love Systems believes it’s a good idea to start off with cold approaching before you try to focus on how to consistently get the 9’s and 10’s. Before we get to the part of on how to get the 8’s, 9’s and 10 consistently, we want to first address what makes an 8 and 8, a 9 a nine and so on. A lot of times guys put a female’s physical beauty on a scale of 1 to 10. 1 being completely unattractive in every way and 10 being completely attractive in every way. Here at attractandseducehotwomen.com, we focus on helping you get the 7’s, 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s. We are not interested in a girl that is below a 7. We are not interested in them because most guys are not interested in attracting and seducing any girl that is below a 7. Are you more interested in learning how to attract and seduce a girl less then a 7 or a girl that is a 10? Here at attract and seduce hot women, we do not judge girls based just on their beauty. We take their personality into consideration. A girl could be a 7 physically but her personality could be very attractive that will make her an 8 or possibly a bit higher. A girl could be the most beautiful girl in the world but if she has a very bitchy personality, complains too much or is known for sleeping with just about any guy, she can easily drop down to a 7. (This is another reason why most women won’t sleep with just any guy, they are fully aware of how it will affect their self worth) Women also judge guys in the same way guys do. However, it’s less based on looks and more based on certain qualities. Yes looks matter a lot but it’s something most guys can work on and get better. Women judge you based on the following qualities which is the same way how here at attract and seduce hot women judges a women. The qualities that make a man or a women a 10
Use these 10 qualities to determine how attractive you are and how attractive other women are. Even if you don’t decide to see what number a women is on the scale of 1-10 based on these qualities, THEY WILL. So the better you are in each of these qualities the closer you are to being a 10 in the eyes of a women. Neglecting even 1 can causes you to lower your attractive score. Is the goal to become a 10? Not necessarily but its important to at least be an 8 to be able to consistently get the 8’s 9’s and 10’s. Now,the big key in getting these types of girls is to find a way to get into their social circle. It’s that simple. It’s easier said then done though. Join groups that these types of girls are part of and make friends with them FIRST. A few groups that you would find these types of women in are hip hop dance groups, yoga, and taking up a photography position that will let you have access to these types of women. You can find many other groups around your city/town by searching for groups that have at least 1,000 members on Facebook. Meetup.com is another great source to look into. Find a group that interest you and sign up for it. According to dating expert Greg Greenway, you have a 1 out of 10 chance dating a model if you happen to be part of her social circle. Whereas trying to consistently get a 9 or 10 through cold approaching is 1 out of 10,000! Make friends first and as they start seeing you more often, they will consider you as part of their social group. Not only will you have a high chance of being with these types of girls intimately but you will have access to their other super attractive female friends. This is how to get the 8’s, 9’s and 10’s consistently. Bottom Line: Knowing how to attract and seduce the 8’s, 9’s and 10’s consistently can seem almost impossible to many guys. The truth is that it’s so much easier then a lot of guys think. You don’t have to be rich, have an amazing car, a big house, an impressive career or have the most amazing body. The more you work on bettering yourself in each of the 10 attractive qualities the more attractive you will become to these types of women. Be honest with yourself while evaluating yourself and know that the more you better yourself in each of these qualities, the closer you are at being a 10 yourself. The result will be that you will be able to more consistently attract and seduce the 10’s and any girl below that number. Know that the big key in getting the 8’s-10’s consistently is to find ways to get into their social circle. Join groups that are full of these types of women and make friends with most of them first. 90% of these types of women only date guys that are part of their social circle and very few times do they date guys that they meet from a cold approach.
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Dating Sites Reviews
Dating Sites Reviews |
| Happy Couples Are Probably Just Tricking Themselves Into Believing They're Happy Posted: 24 Feb 2015 03:24 AM PST Here's a post-Valentine's Day reality check: happy couples may not be happy at all, just really good at deluding themselves. Publications like Cosmo would have you believe that the secret to romantic success is seeing your partner as they truly are. And it does sound nice, but psychological research suggests it's the wrong approach. Instead, the key to a happy relationship is seeing your partner as you wish they were. Just think about it for a second and sudden ... |
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Monday, February 23, 2015
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