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How to Talk Dirty to a Guy

Posted: 29 Dec 2014 04:54 PM PST

Are you looking for a way to spice up your sex life?

Despite what you may think: how to talk dirty to a guy really doesn't have much to do with the actual words you say.

You read that right.

It's not so much what you say! The words aren't all that important.

It's all about how you say it, what you put into it and how you feel when you say it.

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How you say it

  • You can say anything and make it sound hot.
  • You can use your tone of voice: lower or raise it subtly for effect.
  • ​Breathing: enhance your words and sentences with deep and exaggerated inhalations or exhalations. Make them sound real breath-y!
  • ​Accentuation: put emphasis on certain words.
  • Pace: slow down your speech and add long pauses in between your words.

You have to feel it

  • If you're not comfortable with what you're doing, nothing will ever make it sound sexy.
  • Whatever you say and however you say it, it has to be natural and you have to be comfortable saying it.

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It can be as clean or dirty as you want

  • There is NO definition of dirty talk.
  • It can be whatever you want.
  • ​Do whatever works for you and your man.
  • ​You can make dirty talk out of anything soft, sweet, subtle, dirty, vulgar or profane!
  • Everyone has their preference and there is no right or wrong way to do it!

Communicate with him

It's important that while you're doing what's comfortable for you, know what he likes to hear also. It has to be comfortable for both of you. Talk to him about it and work on it together. You BOTH need someone to talk dirty to right!?

Start small and work your way into it

If you're not used to talking dirty or you're not used to talking at all during sex, then you need to get comfortable slowly.

  • Start with heavy breathing or moaning.
  • Or start with simple one or two word phrases just to get used to hearing your own voice.

Describe what you want him to do

Not sure what to say? Just start by explaining to him what you want him to do to you, or what you want to do to him. You do want him to do something to you right? Yes, that. Say that!

Let him know when he's doing something you like

You can also let him know what's working for you while he's doing it. Describe it to him. "I like it when you…" This can also be an ego booster for him. Just make sure you're being honest.

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Final Thoughts

I hope these tips have given you some ideas of where to start with the dirty talk! The most important things to remember are: only say what you're comfortable saying and pay special attention to HOW you say it. How to talk dirty is more about how you say it than what you say. In order to be sexy, it has to be true for you! Everything else is open to interpretation.

 

 

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