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6 Signs She Is Girlfriend Material

Posted: 27 Dec 2014 11:51 AM PST

If it's been a while since you've been able to use the word "girlfriend" in conversations at the family picnic, it might be time for you to start getting serious about things again. And you've had more than your fair share of attention from the heartbreakers and moochers of the world.

The very last thing you want to do is give that title away to someone who will sneak up on you with a little bit of crazy the second you seal the deal. But there's this one girl who you can't seem to get off your mind. It's so cool when you hang out together, and she's clearly different than the rest. Could it be time? Is she "the one" who is going to restore your faith in the good girlfriends of the world? Here are six signs that will help you sort out that one. If she hits more than half, you are good.

The Details:

  1. She is your No. 1 fan. Dating coach and author of Dating, Mating and Manhandling Lauren Frances says herself that women are hard to impress. If she is complimenting you, it's because she is trying to puff you up for a reason. She knows it makes you feel good. That's the good news. The even better news is that she means it. The bad news? Dude, she's flattering you. There isn't any. She likes you. A lot.

 

  1. You think she's cool. Period. You've already described her to the guys as "hot" and "cool," so they know it's just a matter of time before she's going to be puttering around on poker night.

 

If she's already puttering around on poker night, we can't help but wonder, why haven't you asked her yet? "Cool" in your world means she remembers the name of the Green Bay linebacker before you do, beats you in bowling and loves to throw it in your face. But you will never tell her that because you actually do want to beat her next time she runs into you at bowling.

  1. She's honest. It's all you've been looking for, really. Someone real. Someone who isn't going to play games with you just to get you to like them. Someone who acts like she doesn't care if you like what she thinks, she is going to say it anyway.

 

When you ask her if she likes something, she is going to say, "You know what, I liked it better when you…" because she's honest. If she doesn't like it, she is confident enough to be open with you about it. And if she does, she does. You never need to guess what game she's playing because she doesn't. Seriously, she doesn't.

 

Dr. John Gray author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus relationship coach, guru and all around dating expert, told Glamour magazine that this was the easiest way for women to get a man. If she's honest with you, she is trying to earn that title.

 

  1. You feel chemistry about her even when she is not there. Chemistry is not the kind of thing that you can fake or read a book about to try and improve. If the thought of her gets you going even when she's not right in front of you looking amazing, then we can't help but wonder, "Why are you waiting to confirm her as solely yours?"

 

  1. You are near clueless about her exes. Lauren Frances author of the aforementioned book Dating, Mating and Manhandling, also says that women who want to be girlfriends understand the power of keeping the mystery alive. She knows it is not ladylike to discuss this with you until you are enough of a fixture in her life for this to be pertinent information.If all you hear about is her ex drama, she's not that into you. She's into you being into her. If you don't even know if she has ever even had an ex, OK being realistic, you're secretly hoping based on lack of evidence, then she is holding back for a reason. The reason is she IS into you, and she is sensitive enough to understand this is the last thing you want to hear. For real.
  2. She's different. The thought of spending time with her doesn't feel like an obligation like it has with many other girls because she's different. You can't put your finger on it, but you just know that's the case.


If you had to make a list of reasons, you would need many sheets of paper, but you still can't put your finger on it. If the girl in question has reached this place in your mind, then she might not just be girlfriend material, she might be getting a ring from you one day. But first things first. Seal this deal, and give it the time it needs to be the real thing, baby.

The Bottom Line:

The bottom line with determining whether she is girlfriend material is simply a matter of weighing the pros and the cons. If you can say more good things about her than bad, or can't even find any bad things to say at all, then she is probably in good shape to be your girlfriend.

 

Real girlfriend material types do not throw themselves at you waiting to be your next main squeeze. They do everything in their power to show you by doing that they are, in fact, the girlfriend of your dreams. If she seems real, is cool enough to see on poker nights without aggravating anyone, and has unbelievable chemistry with you then, well, what are you waiting for?

 

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